Zen and Buddhist philosophy see attachment as the worst enemy of peace of mind. practice detachment to calm your nerves and soothe your soul, they say. makes sense. but when you have put your soul into something, a well researched 4 years browsing through architectural magazines, have touched and felt it at every stage of its growth, it gets difficult to separate yourself from it. the ‘it’ in question here being our home. welcome. to a place like no other.